cheating red flags

 Typically, a change in behavior is directly linked to unfaithful partners, here's why. When someone starts acting different out of the blue, they are displaying that there has been a change in their life in some way. If you notice this sign in conjunction with any of the below signs, then you may be a victim of Infidelity.  

 Does your SO come home late from work when they used to come home on time? If so, you may have a cheater on your hands. Maybe they are just strained at work with a higher workload. Maybe not. This is where you need a Private Investigator to assist you in conducting surveillance to find out exactly why your SO has started staying late at work. 

 Listen, we all understand that privacy is important, but a relationship is not the place to be private about your life. Open, honest relationships last the longest for obvious reasons. If your SO starts taking calls not in your presence and when they have been in the past, then they may be up to something. 

 Clumsiness doesn't happen overnight. You know your SO better than anyone else so use that to your advantage. What are their typical traits in day-to-day life? You need to study your SO harder than a college exam if you suspect them of cheating. If they are normally very dexterous and coordinated, then new bruising could be a sign they are in fact being unfaithful. 

 You and your SO have a set list of positions that you cycle through during intercourse, we all do! If there has been no discussion of adding a new position in the bedroom and suddenly your SO initiates one, pay close attention. Where did they learn how to do that? This is the million-dollar question, that's answer points toward entertaining another partner. Call them out on it in a nonchalant way, to keep suspicion down, and take note of what they say.  

 Sometimes your SO may not be in the mood for a number of reasons. Maybe they had a bad day at work, or they are simply stressed out, it happens to the best of us. Thats normal, what isn't normal is if this is a reoccurring problem. If your SO is turning you down every time you want sex, you may not be the only person they are entertaining. See, what happens is that when your SO is giving all their attention to another partner, there isn't any left for you, resulting in your SO turning you down frequently.  

 Oh boy, probably the most controversial topic of the relationship world. Should you have opposite sex friends when you're in a relationship? We aren't here to answer that question. The fact of the matter is, if your SO would rather talk to someone else other than you that's the problem. Talking to opposite sex BFs about personal relationship problems is a known factor in divorce and breakups. Talking sexually with opposite sex BFs is even worse. Everyone has a different opinion on whether you should have opposite sex BFs, but if your SO is flirting or entertaining someone more than you that is the concerning part.  

 A great relationship one day and a terrible one the next is very alarming. People tend to treat their SO worse when they know they have a "back up plan". If you can fall back on a "better" relationship, why would you invest time in your current relationship and make sure your SO knows you care? You wouldn't, in fact you would do just the opposite maybe even subconsciously. You would treat your SO terrible and make them feel even worse by what you say and your actions.  

 Things come up sometimes and canceling plans is the only answer. On the flip, it is not normal behavior to cancel plans more often than not. It shows that you are not your SO's top priority, especially if their excuses are odd or are always similar. People go over and beyond for people they care about. If your SO is always finding an excuse not to go out with you then they are likely not into you and or they are cheating.  

 We as humans have certain scents that we like to wear. If your SO smells of a different fragrance than they own or wear, or you own, then the answer is right there. You can't smell like a fragrance unless you were in close proximity of it. More signs point toward Infidelity than not in a situation like this.  

Source - Eagle Eye Investigations Agency LLC